Why can school be so hard?


For neurodivergent children, the mainstream school environment can be difficult to manage. A recent study evidenced that the single greatest factor in determining school participation for school-aged autistic young people is the physical school environment.
When we consider the six areas of neurodevelopment in combination with the pressures of the physical mainstream school environment, it makes a lot of sense that it could be difficult for a neurodivergent child to be there.
Here are some examples of what a neurodivergent child may experience in a mainstream school setting.
Just one of these things, let alone all of them in combination, could make it difficult to cope with attending and engaging in school day.
Bright lights, noisy environments, limited private space, school uniforms irritating skin, having to eat at set times, being expected to sit still and concentrate
Trying to understand expressions (visual and verbal) that don’t make sense, feeling like others don’t understand what you’re trying to say.
Trying to make friends but feeling as though you don’t fit in, being confused by unspoken rules and expectations
Being frustrated and confused when you feel misunderstood, feeling hurt when peers don’t invite you to play during break
Holding a pencil steady can hurt, struggling with coordination can cause more injuries, eating with utensils can be more challenging.
Being exhausted mentally from trying to hold still and remember all the rules that don’t always make sense, feeling that everyone else gets started easily and finishes quickly but not being able to do the same.
Just one of these things, let alone all of them in combination, could make it difficult to attend school every day.
By understanding the specific internal experience of a neurodivergent child, the adults around them have the best chance to implement accommodations and support strategies that will directly improve the young person’s overall wellbeing.
Some example accommodations and strategies for the above scenario include:
Do you have concerns or questions that you want to go over with someone?
Your child’s Named Person (or Lead Professional) is your first point of contact if there is something you want to discuss.
The Named Person is usually:
Ages 0-5 (pre-school): Health Visitor
Ages 5-12 (Primary School): Head Teacher or Principal Teacher
Ages 12-18 (Secondary School): Guidance Teacher or Head Teacher
